| TO ALL OF MY FRIENDS OUT THERE... :)
HAPPY NATIONAL FRIENDSHIP WEEK!
>>One day, when I was a freshman in high school, >> >>I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school. >> >>His name was Kyle. >> >>It looked like he was carrying all of his >> >>books. >> >>I thought to myself, "Why would anyone bring home all his books on >>a >>Friday? >> >>He must really be a nerd." >> >>I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my >>friends >>tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on. >> >>As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him. >> >>They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and >>tripping >>him so >>he landed in the dirt. >> >>His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten >>feet >>from him. >> >>He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes >> >>My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him and as he >>crawled >>around >>looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye. >> >>As I handed him his glasses, I said, "Those guys are jerks. >> >>They really should get lives. >> >>" He looked at me and said, "Hey thanks!" >> >>There was a big smile on his face. >> >>It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude. >> >>I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived. >> >>As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never >>seen him >>before. >> >>He said he had gone to private school before now. >> >>I would have never hung out with a private school kid before. >> >>We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books. >> >>He turned out to be a pretty cool kid. >> >>I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends >> >>He said yes. >> >>We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I >>liked >>him, and my friends thought the same of him. >> >>Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of >>books >>again. >> >>I stopped him and said, "Boy, you are gonna really build some >>serious >>muscles with this pile of books everyday! >> >>" He just laughed and handed me half the books. >> >>Over the next four years, ! Kyle and I became best friends. >> >>When we were seniors, we began to think >> >>about college. >> >>Kyle decided on Georgetown, and I >> >>was going to Duke. >> >>I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never >>be a >>problem. >> >>He was going to be a doctor, and I was going for business on a >>football >>scholarship. >> >>Kyle was valedictorian of our class. >> >>I teased him all the time about being a nerd. >> >>He had to prepare a speech for graduation. >> >>I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak >> >>Graduation day, I saw Kyle. >> >>He looked great. >> >>He was one of those guys that really found himself during high >>school. >> >>He filled out and actually looked good in glasses. >> >>He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him. >> >>Boy, sometimes I was jealous. >> >>! >> >>Today was one of those days. >> >>I could see that he was nervous about his speech. >> >>So, I smacked him on the back and said, "Hey, big guy, you'll be >>great!" >> >>He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) >>and >>smiled. >> >>"! Thanks," he said. >> >>As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began >> >>"Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through >>those >>tough years. >> >>Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but >>mostly your >>friends... >> >>I am here to tell all of you that being a >> >>friend to someone is the best gift you can give them. >> >>I am going to tell you a story." >> >>I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of >>the first >>day we met. >> >>He had planned to kill himself over the weekend. >> >>He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't >>have to >>do it later and was carrying his stuff home. >> >>He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile. >> >>"Thankfully, I was saved. >> >>My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable." >> >>I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy >>told us >>all about his weakest moment. >> >>I saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful >>smile. >> >>Not until that moment did I realize it's depth. >> >>Never underestimate the power of your actions. >> >>With one small gesture you can change a person's life. >> >>For better or for worse. >> >>God puts us all in each other's lives to impact one another in some >>way. >> >>Look for God in others.
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